Never! Never!

Have you ever heard the word "Never"? Your probably have heard it thousands of time since you were born. You hear that word everywhere you go because people like to use it a lot. But what is the reason of that?



In my one opinion people like to use the word "never" because it's the easiest way for them to same many things in only one word. Also they like using the word to open other people eye and they can see their reality. But the thing is that they don't know in what way the word "never" can affect a person life.

Since I was a little girl, I always heard the word "never" because my family or friends will use it to tell me that I was never conquer something in life. Like for example my family and friends use to tell me that I was never going to graduate from High School, that I was never going be in college, that I was never going to meet my mother, That I was never going to be successful in the future, etc. The more I heard the word the more that I put effort in doing something. Listening to the word "You never will graduate from High School" in a way helped me to do my best in school and I had honor since 4 grade - 12 grade. However the word "never" made me feel that I was nothing and that I was never going conquer anything in life. I used to sit down in a chair and think about all the times I had heard the word "never". And I will say to myself “Treicy it's maybe true what other people say, you never going to make your goals, you will never meet your mother and go to college". I will stop thinking that I can do everything in life and I will be negative about my dreams and goals.

One day, I realize that maybe in a way I was never going to be someone in life because that was what other people were thinks. But I wasn't thinking the same; I believed that I just need to work hard to conquer my dreams. That it didn't matter what other people say about me if I believe in myself. After that I kept listening to that word but it didn't affect me anymore because I believe more in myself and in the things that I can do.

I graduated from High School as a honor student, I met my mother (One of my biggest dream),I started college one month ago, and  I had conquer most of my dreams.

You see what happens when you change your way of looking at situations in life? It's true that people (including you own family) will always have negative comments to tell you, but if you pay attention to them they will become a reality. You just need to be positive and always believe in yourself because if you don't believe in yourself who will do it for you?

* I wanted to share this video will all of you, It's a nice song listen to the lyrics.

 


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